We really love how our Chicago SociaBulls group has so many different dogs that walk, for so many different reasons. Though so many times when people see the dogs in the group, they don't realize the stories behind the pups who walk with us. Derby is a gorgeous white pup, with a glamorous pout, that you may have noticed in so many of our walk photos. While she is always so happy walking with the group, while speaking with her person, we learned about the many challenges she'd had just getting Derby to walk. Derby used to spend half of her walks just flopped on the ground. While her flopping was what caused her family to fall in love with her, it soon became a problem on her walks. See how Derby evolved from a flopping dog who needed to be carried, to happily walking among the group.
Derby has always been a flopper (wet noodle) since we
adopted her at 6 months old. She flopped
onto my lap in the adoption room at PAWS and made it impossible to not want to
bring her home with us. On our walks she
would flop if she didn’t want to go a certain direction and would not move
until she was ready. Not even treats
could get her to budge.
More often than not she flopped because she had seen
another dog. She would flop so she could try to meet any dog she set her
sights on. This was cute when she was still a puppy and she was still light
enough that we could pick her up and go on with our walk.
It is important to note that flopping
generally only occurs when I walk her and not my husband.
As she grew I looked
very funny trying to carry a dog that weighs half my size just because she
wouldn't walk.
Most people would stop
me and ask me if she was sick or tired when we were only a few blocks into our
walks. On some occasions I have been
stuck in one spot with her for a good 20- 30 minutes. This would lead to me having to call my
husband or a friend to come to wherever I was so she would finally move when
someone she knew approached. If I was lucky a dog would walk by that Derby
would want to follow so I could at least get her moving in any direction. Often it was in whatever direction didn’t lead
towards home and there was still the risk of her flopping again.
When she turned two things got worse. People had told
us that sometimes dogs change when they turn two. We experienced these terrible two’s with our
dog Derby for over a year. She went from flopping because she wanted to
meet other dogs to flopping and lunging at dogs she didn’t care for. She
would also try to jump on runners. I dreaded every walk because they were so
unpredictable. She became leash reactive to dogs and runners. Anytime I took her on a walk I prayed we
wouldn't see people, dogs, or people with dogs. This was very unlikely in most neighborhoods
in Chicago.
We had no idea where to turn because we didn’t want to admit
we were having such problems with our dog. In the safety of our own home she was just a
big cuddlebug and lap dog who loves people. My husband started reading Two
Pitties and also applied for Sociabulls. Before our name came up on the wait list, things
got even worse and we sent Derby for a two week board and train at Found. The trainer explained that Derby was flopping
because she viewed seeing the dogs as a special event and was focusing more on
the world around her than on her owners. She needed to be provided with
more mental stimulation, more exposure to dogs, and needed to work on focusing
on us instead of everything else on her walks. We saw a lot of improvement
after those two weeks at the board & train. We were hoping to use
Sociabulls walks to continue our training with Derby and were lucky enough to have her name come up on the waiting list after her training ended. The hope was getting Derby
more socialized would help her on our daily walks.
Our very first Sociabulls walk we asked to be placed in the
back because we were certain she would flop when she saw all the other dogs
around her. We have been pleasantly surprised since joining; Derby has
been able to be in the middle of the pack without flopping and she usually
barely pays attention to any of the dogs. Derby has not had any jumping
incidents with runners since we joined. While Derby is still far from
perfect, we've learned so much about what she needs to make her successful on
walks and the importance of meeting new dogs the right way.
Sociabulls has given us so much more than a weekly walk to
help socialize our dog going through the terrible two's. We have gotten a
place to share Derby's successes and also people to commiserate with without
judgment about our dog's worst days. Derby has gotten to be a pitbull
embassador and hang out with Ms. M & Mr. B at festivals (photo here!). We were lucky
enough to have Stickers owner, from La Familia Green, make the table numbers for our recent wedding
that were Derby’s likeness.
The group even brought us together with Derby’sfoster mom and we got to see pictures of her right before we adopted her. We
feel so lucky to be part of such an amazing community.
Thank you so much to Derby's people for sharing her story!
You can also read about more SociaBulls Members: Medgar (Walking with a Dog Who Won't Walk), Honor (The Gift of Learning to Relax), Maria (Not Letting Age be a Limitation), Sophie (Finding a Safe Place and Building Confidence), Torre (From Learning about Pitbulls to Developing an Ambassadog), Estelle (Waiting to Be Noticed), Franklin (A Small Dog in a Big Dog Group), Gordon (Learning to Be Social and Have Dog Friends), Nabi (A Shy Dog Making Sense of a "People World") Sprocket (Teaching a Dog When it's not Time to Play), Lola (Living in the City with a Dog who Fears Strangers), Zoe (The Dog who "Loves Too Hard"), Izzy (Being a good pitbull ambassador while working with an energetic dog) and Maize (Being social with an unsocial pup).
Plus, join our Chicago SociaBulls Facebook page for more photos and information about group walks. And check out the Hikabulls page where we first learned about the benefits of group walking.
10 comments:
What a great story! Thanks for sharing. We can only hope we have one success story like the ones you have once we get started!!
It's so great to hear the backstories of many of the pups we see on Sociabulls walks. I never would have guessed that Derby had worked through so much! Monkey also changed dramatically once he hit 2 years old, and it was so disheartening to lose my easy 'dog-park dog' almost overnight.
Thanks for sharing! I love that Stickers and Derby have the same spotted ears! And that 3rd picture is too funny.
I've never heard about a dog that's a flopper... I'm things are going well on the walks!
We are so happy Derby is doing well on the walks. A dog behaviorist told our pittie friend that is the best training is walking with other pups
Benny & Lily
Awesome success story. I can imagine that these walks would be just the ticket for a dog like Derby! I don't think my bully boy got any MORE reactive/anxious/nutty when he turned age 2...but I think that is totally true for many dogs. I've specially heard it about bullies--but I think its true for all pups.
I LOVE DERBY!! Who can resist that liiiip. She is such a wonderful dog to walk with and her people are pretty awesome to
We always love hearing the 'backstories' and we love that Derby's family did share her story. Especially the line "we didn't know where to turn because we didn't want to admit we were having such problems with our dog". I think this is true for so many people and it can be so alienating. Miss M was crazy in her youth and I felt really alone. I think sharing stories like this really does help people know they're not alone. Thanks again for sharing!
It's so great how your walking group helps so many doggies :D
Great story...congrats to Derby and family for sticking with it and finding a solution!
Wyatt
Hi! Wow, this is such an inspirational blog! I love this! It's the first time I visit this blog, I don't own a pit or anything, but I think this is such a well-written blog that I just had to drop a comment! Wow. Beautiful pictures as well. Great job!
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