With so many of the pups on our SociaBulls walks, we often don't realize the behind-the-scenes work that went into the dogs we see. Neko is one strikingly handsome pup who has been walking with our SociaBulls group for awhile. I would always admire his laid-back manner, and I even remember on one walk a police officer who approached the group singled him out as being an example of an exceptionally well-behaved pup.
Though as Neko's person wrote in his story, she has been struggling with some behavior that only she has experienced with him. Here is Neko's story about working as a team with your dog and understanding all dogs are a work in progress:
I've gone
back and forth about wanting to share Nekos' story for quite awhile now.
I was conflicted and embarrassed that we were struggling with the same issues
we faced on day 1. It took many months for me to understand that training
is a lifelong process. Just like people, dogs constantly need challenges
and positive reinforcement.
My
journey with Neko has kept me busy. I was perfectly happy with my two cats, but
something was missing in my home. After seeing the photos of dogs at Animal Care and Control on Facebook, and understanding their chance of making it
out, I knew I had to get involved and do my part. I also really missed the
loyalty and companionship a dog provides. I requested to foster an older lazy
dog. What I got instead was an underweight 8 month old puppy bursting
with energy. When it came time to update the rescue about his personality and
temper, I realized I couldn't give him up. We celebrated two years last month.
I can't believe baby Neko could be any cuter!
If I had
known in those early days before becoming a foster failure about his medical
issues (early stages of renal failure), his pension for the most expensive dog
foods , and fear (expressed as aggression) toward random people or dogs I may
have thought a little more about what I was getting into. Giving up wasn't an
option so I decided we were going to make it work.
Neko was
great on our walks the first year or so. He always had ample amounts of
energy regardless of exercise. He would play with dogs he encountered and
showed no signs of aggression. When he turned two that's when things started to
change. Our vet said two was when their personality really begins to
show, which made me worried. I started noticing we needed help when we
would get stopped frequently on our walks in the neighborhood. People would
comment and say what a "beautiful/ great/gorgeous dog." Unfortunately,
this attention was followed by Neko barking uncontrollably, quickly
erasing any compliment the stranger offered. Funny thing is, our wonderful dog
walkers reported this was never an issue-he only did this with me. At other
times, he could see a dog walking across the street, and if there were two
together he would have a complete melt down complete with whining and and
pulling in an effort to go meet them.
We did
private training, group classes and Sociabulls, and it would be a rare occasion
that he would act up at one of these venues. Even with this training and
exposure to other dogs, this would still happen on walks with just us two
in our neighborhood. He could go to daycare and be fine, but he would never be
an off leash dog at the beach or dog park (we've found ways around this by
going very early and having a 30ft lead always attached). I went to a
well known Chicago trainer who felt he couldn't do much to help because it was
all situational. I considered sending him away to camp, but was put off
by the costs and medication wasn't an option.
Eventually
it dawned on me that Neko wasn't the problem, it was me! When people would stop
us or dogs would walk by, I would tense up due to past experiences which
translated to Neko being overly protective. This is something of a new realization,
but already I have noticed a huge difference in relaxing more on our walks and
training every single walk to keep him focused. I try to praise him more
enthusiastically when he is demonstrating really good behavior and acknowledge
whenever he checks in with me.
Socialbulls
has given us the space to work on anything and everything in a community that
is non judgmental, and more importantly supportive! Sure there are still
occasional instances that trigger protective behavior, but SociaBulls has
been tremendous in building confidence for both of us. Every day is a learning
experience and the efforts I put forth come back ten fold in sloppy
kisses and an intense bond. Neko is a goofball at heart with an endless
devotion any toy that comes his way. My life
revolves around my furry family, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
Thanks to Neko and his person for sharing their story!
You can also read about more SociaBulls Members: Derby (Derby has always been a flopper), Medgar (Walking with a Dog Who Won't Walk), Honor (The Gift of Learning to Relax), Maria (Not Letting Age be a Limitation), Sophie (Finding a Safe Place and Building Confidence), Torre (From Learning about Pitbulls to Developing an Ambassadog), Estelle (Waiting to Be Noticed), Franklin (A Small Dog in a Big Dog Group), Gordon (Learning to Be Social and Have Dog Friends), Nabi (A Shy Dog Making Sense of a "People World") Sprocket (Teaching a Dog When it's not Time to Play), Lola (Living in the City with a Dog who Fears Strangers), Zoe (The Dog who "Loves Too Hard"), Izzy (Being a good pitbull ambassador while working with an energetic dog) and Maize (Being social with an unsocial pup).